TIFU by getting rid of my boyfriends bush while he was sleeping.

yep, you read that right, no this isn’t a joke or a shitpost, i (F18) wish it was.my boyfriend (M21) is hairy, and im fine with that, but his bush is very much overgrown to say the least, and i’ve said before i think its unhygienic and unsanitary.he won’t do anything about it, not even trim it, and it’s making me lose my mind.i don’t want to be intimate with him, it smells, it looks gross and it makes my skin crawl, and it’s unfair, because i am always fully shaved, and he prefers me that way.my boyfriend has sleeping problems, and he recently started new medication that makes him sleep like a baby, good for him, even better for me.so, last night, he tried to be intimate with me, i distracted him by putting on his tv show and making him pizza bagels, and in about 15 mins he was out like a light.so i went and grabbed my hair removal cream, put my gloves on and started lathering.i was scared the feeling or smell would wake him up, but i was lucky.i finished off the process and went to sleep.this morning i woke up to a literal glass of milk being dumped on my face, and my boyfriend screaming at me, i tried to calm him down and comfort him, but all i got was him telling me i violated him, and he’s leaving me.we’ve been together for 3 years so i thought we where close enough, but i guess not.i didn’t mean to hurt him this much, i care about him sm and im extremely upset, did i go too far?? how do i convince him to come back? if i even deserve that.TLDR;i got rid of my bfs bush while he was asleep and he’s leaving me.